Vinita Sidhartha

Ripples Of Life and Time


Doing Everything

Blog 11 of 30

Perhaps the most difficult thing about working from home is managing time. It is almost two full time jobs, so it became necessary for me to become more organised and efficient and creative in my use of time.

Most of the day-to-day work happened on schedule. The challenge came when it required a lot of concentrated effort for a few hours. I got into the habit of working late into the night when no one would disturb me and taking a short nap during the day. The disadvantage of course was if the phone rang, I would have to pick it up. There were no mobile phones to register missed calls. Answering machines were available, but most clients did not leave messages. They expected you to pick up.

I realised that thinking time could be used effectively. I learned to do my thinking, ideating, and planning in the kitchen. With two growing boys who were eternally “staaaaaarving,” I spent a lot of time in there anyway.  In fact, I still believe my most creative ideas came in the kitchen.

I also realised I was terrible at typing. I use what I am told is a “Columbus style of typing” – you spot it and land on it! I peck away painstakingly at the keyboard using two fingers! So, in the early years, I ended up using my recorder to dictate my proposals and design documents as my mind would race ahead of my fingers.

It seems a bit archaic – dictating stuff for someone to transcribe, but it just opened up huge swathes of time for me. Today a smart phone does the job when required and I still feel I do my best work in the kitchen stirring something on the stove, in a traffic jam in a car or even on a walk!

This ability to work everywhere was useful in later years. When parents and family were sick. I would often sit with a laptop in the hospital, ensuring that I was connected and on top of things.

The tough part was accepting that work was always going to intrude into the home. My husband is a nine to five a sort of guy and would look askance when I had client calls in the evenings. Clients though were not great respecters of home time. It meant I often had deadlines when I had to work over the weekend or even when we went on holidays. I grew used to it and learned to get in a couple of hours of work whenever required at a time when the family was busy elsewhere. It also taught me to anticipate and plan because I was a perfectionist and never wanted anyone to say I made a mistake because I worked from home! I was determined to prove that it was possible to do it.

The positive side of course, was realizing that if work intruded into home, home could intrude into work too. I never turned down a lunch or movie invitation from a friend even during working hours. I would work my appointments around it and head out whenever I wanted. I could always work at some other time of day and make up for it. There were even times that I took a day off simply because I needed to recharge my batteries.

Over the years there is one thing clear to me. If you are efficient enough you will find time for all the things you have to do. And once you have done that then you can find time for the things you want to do. Because the only way it works is if you do everything!

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Why Ripples of Life?

There is something magical about being on the water.
You are floating, subject to the vagaries of the current.
Somehow there is a sense of being alone with yourself.
And as you look at the ripples, the sun scatters its rays…
And the water infused with light, the droplets shining like diamonds.
In the shade are the shadows— beautiful in their own way.
To me this is very like life itself
With bright highlights — with highs and lows —
Truly the Ripples of Life.


Books by Vinita Sidhartha

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Newspaper Articles by Vinita Sidhartha

The New Indian Express – Just Play column
The lost game of cowrie shells from Kashmir
Poetics of playfulness
The lost game of cowrie shells from Kashmir
Back to the basics
Turning back time to learn about royal games
The treasure in our trees
Shells and the various games we played
The New Indian Express – Memories and Madras
Games inscribed in the past
Street side stories
Through the lens of childhood memories
Through the eyes of a child

In Conversation on YouTube – Memories and Madras

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Indira Parthasarathy – Memories and Madras
Ramesh Krishnan and Ramanathan Krishnan – Memories and Madras
Sriram Venkatakrishnan – Memories and Madras
Prabha Sridevan and Sita Sundar Ram – Memories and Madras
Sikkil Gurucharan – Memories and Madras
Padma Srinath – Memories and Madras
R U Srinivas – Memories and Madras
Sabita Radhakrishna – Memories and Madras
Pradeep Chakravarthy – Memories and Madras
Ranga Kumar – Memories and Madras
Priya Murle – Memories and Madras
Viswanathan Anand – Memories and Madras
Shylaja Chetlur – Memories and Madras
Amar Ramesh – Memories and Madras
Vidya Gajapathi Raju Singh – Memories and Madras
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Letika Saran – Memories and Madras
M. V. Subbiah – Memories and Madras
Anita Ratnam – Memories and Madras
Dr B Krishna Rau – Memories and Madras
MCTP Chidambaram – Memories and Madras
Rakesh Ragunathan – Memories and Madras
Krishnamachari Srikkanth – Memories and Madras
Anil Srinivasan – Memories and Madras
Meyyammai Murugappan – Memories and Madras
Sivasankari – Memories and Madras
Mohan Raman – Memories and Madras
Lakshmi Krishnamurthy – Memories and Madras
Thota Tharani – Memories and Madras
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