Vinita Sidhartha

Ripples Of Life and Time


Finding my Drum

One of my grandmother’s iconic stories was about a naughty little monkey. The monkey was playing around one day and happened to stop at a place where a carpenter was working. Ever curious, he peeped down through the leaves of the tree to watch the carpenter. When the carpenter took a break for lunch, the monkey naturally tried to imitate what he had been doing. In doing so, he did not pay attention to his long tail that got caught in a plank of wood. Helpless with pain, the monkey was forced to cut off his own tail with a knife lying nearby. He grabbed the knife and left through the forest holding the knife in his hand, wincing with pain.

Finally, he came to rest on a mango tree. There he saw fresh juicy mangoes hanging from a branch. They took his mind off the pain, and he really wanted to eat those mangoes. The mangoes were out on the limb of a very thin branch, which he was sure wouldn’t hold his weight. So, the monkey tried to saw down the branch tree with the knife in his hand. The branch fell to the ground, but the knife got stuck in the tree. The monkey scrambled down, picked up a few succulent mangoes and gnawing on one went on his way.

A little further on, he saw a peasant who was playing a folk drum and singing as he walked along. The monkey was fascinated by the sound of the drum and kept following the peasant along the tree line. At some point he stopped paying attention and the mangoes he held fell to the ground. The salesman was excited to see such succulent mangoes and dropping his drum ran to them.

The monkey scrambled down the tree and picked up the drum and went home singing all the way and playing on his drum:

I lost my tail, I got a drum,
Dum dum dum.
I lost my tail, I got a knife,
Dum, dum, dum.
I lost my knife, I got a fruit,
Dum, dum, dum.
I lost my fruit. I got a drum,
Dum dum, dum, dum, dum, dum dum dum……and he ran all the way home.

My granny was excellent at singing along like a happy monkey. I loved this story, but it took me years to understand the point of it.
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Exciting things started happening at work. Although I found the shift to the office hard, it relieved me of a lot of the day-to-day nitty-gritty. I had learned my lesson though, and kept close watch on things, but I was not alone anymore. I had help, I had people.
It was about this time that social media started becoming a thing. Marketing, which had long been the most difficult challenge, seemed to be a little bit easier. Imagine you’re walking to a store, and you want to pick up the game of Monopoly. You don’t see it, but you know the store has it because it has board games. So, you would ask for it. However, if you wanted to pick up a game of Pallanguzhi or Aadu Puli Aatam, and you did not see it, you wouldn’t even know it was there.

Sadly, our games needed a lot of marketing, a lot of awareness and until they brought in a lot of sales, many stores did not display them prominently. We didn’t have the advertising budget. We also had numerous other challenges. Being a small company and working with small artisans meant that in many cases we advanced money to get our products made. Long payment cycles did not work for us, especially as margins were so thin. Many stores did not want to stock us or took forever to pay us. This combination of aspects made it harder for people to know where the games could be found.

Social media changed all that. Suddenly we could reach out to people across the country and tell them where they could buy our games. We could very soon have our own portal so people could come directly to us to buy our games. We could tell them about our games, the fascinating tidbits about their history and origins. It was an exciting time. It was a time when we could literally trumpet what we were doing to the far corners of the world. And with a little more time on my hands since moving to the office, I started to do just that.

Much like the monkey, I might have lost the fun of working from home, but I had found my drum! And now I saw the point of my granny’s story!

Dum dum, dum, dum, dum, dum dum dum……


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Why Ripples of Life?

There is something magical about being on the water.
You are floating, subject to the vagaries of the current.
Somehow there is a sense of being alone with yourself.
And as you look at the ripples, the sun scatters its rays…
And the water infused with light, the droplets shining like diamonds.
In the shade are the shadows— beautiful in their own way.
To me this is very like life itself
With bright highlights — with highs and lows —
Truly the Ripples of Life.


Books by Vinita Sidhartha

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Newspaper Articles by Vinita Sidhartha

The New Indian Express – Just Play column
The lost game of cowrie shells from Kashmir
Poetics of playfulness
The lost game of cowrie shells from Kashmir
Back to the basics
Turning back time to learn about royal games
The treasure in our trees
Shells and the various games we played
The New Indian Express – Memories and Madras
Games inscribed in the past
Street side stories
Through the lens of childhood memories
Through the eyes of a child

In Conversation on YouTube – Memories and Madras

YouTube Links
Indira Parthasarathy – Memories and Madras
Ramesh Krishnan and Ramanathan Krishnan – Memories and Madras
Sriram Venkatakrishnan – Memories and Madras
Prabha Sridevan and Sita Sundar Ram – Memories and Madras
Sikkil Gurucharan – Memories and Madras
Padma Srinath – Memories and Madras
R U Srinivas – Memories and Madras
Sabita Radhakrishna – Memories and Madras
Pradeep Chakravarthy – Memories and Madras
Ranga Kumar – Memories and Madras
Priya Murle – Memories and Madras
Viswanathan Anand – Memories and Madras
Shylaja Chetlur – Memories and Madras
Amar Ramesh – Memories and Madras
Vidya Gajapathi Raju Singh – Memories and Madras
Timeri N. Murari – Memories and Madras
(15) C. D. Gopinath – Memories and Madras – YouTube
S. Sowmya – Memories and Madras
Letika Saran – Memories and Madras
M. V. Subbiah – Memories and Madras
Anita Ratnam – Memories and Madras
Dr B Krishna Rau – Memories and Madras
MCTP Chidambaram – Memories and Madras
Rakesh Ragunathan – Memories and Madras
Krishnamachari Srikkanth – Memories and Madras
Anil Srinivasan – Memories and Madras
Meyyammai Murugappan – Memories and Madras
Sivasankari – Memories and Madras
Mohan Raman – Memories and Madras
Lakshmi Krishnamurthy – Memories and Madras
Thota Tharani – Memories and Madras
Chithra Madhavan – Memories and Madras