Vinita Sidhartha

Ripples Of Life and Time


Making Plans

It is always a lot of planning at work to ensure that everything is tied up before you travel so the team can carry on. You also need to check for conflicts of calendars and a million other details before you decide to go. Add to that a complicated situation at home with old parents needing supervision and care, the decision to travel is never easy. There are times I swear that Generals have perhaps plotted war strategies that require less coordination than the arrangements that had to be made to travel.

I had to talk to the battery of care givers ensuring there would be no leave requirements at the time and if there were, that suitable substitutes were available.  As all this was six months ahead of time, no clear answers were available. Then it required coordinating with doctors to ensure that my travel did not clash with their travel plans, so I had emergency help at home.

I had to put in place fail safes for every emergency. Complicated flow charts and plans were analysed to identify the weak spots and how best to shore them up.

Of course, you get greedy when you get a chance to travel to a country like Spain. You start trying to squeeze in a holiday. That of course means trying to coordinate the times and dates with your spouse as well as trying to figure out flights, places to visit and more – something easier said than done.

And just when you think that everything is sorted out or that you are at least getting there, something goes wrong.  I stopped thinking about it for a couple of months, but the conference organisers needed an answer.

So, I revisited the plans again. But no matter which way I looked at it, it could not be done… unless……

Yup. The holiday was dropped, and the spouse was cajoled to stay home and hold fort, which he willingly did.

Now it was definite. I was going.

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Why Ripples of Life?

There is something magical about being on the water.
You are floating, subject to the vagaries of the current.
Somehow there is a sense of being alone with yourself.
And as you look at the ripples, the sun scatters its rays…
And the water infused with light, the droplets shining like diamonds.
In the shade are the shadows— beautiful in their own way.
To me this is very like life itself
With bright highlights — with highs and lows —
Truly the Ripples of Life.


Books by Vinita Sidhartha

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Newspaper Articles by Vinita Sidhartha

The New Indian Express – Just Play column
The lost game of cowrie shells from Kashmir
Poetics of playfulness
The lost game of cowrie shells from Kashmir
Back to the basics
Turning back time to learn about royal games
The treasure in our trees
Shells and the various games we played
The New Indian Express – Memories and Madras
Games inscribed in the past
Street side stories
Through the lens of childhood memories
Through the eyes of a child

In Conversation on YouTube – Memories and Madras

YouTube Links
Indira Parthasarathy – Memories and Madras
Ramesh Krishnan and Ramanathan Krishnan – Memories and Madras
Sriram Venkatakrishnan – Memories and Madras
Prabha Sridevan and Sita Sundar Ram – Memories and Madras
Sikkil Gurucharan – Memories and Madras
Padma Srinath – Memories and Madras
R U Srinivas – Memories and Madras
Sabita Radhakrishna – Memories and Madras
Pradeep Chakravarthy – Memories and Madras
Ranga Kumar – Memories and Madras
Priya Murle – Memories and Madras
Viswanathan Anand – Memories and Madras
Shylaja Chetlur – Memories and Madras
Amar Ramesh – Memories and Madras
Vidya Gajapathi Raju Singh – Memories and Madras
Timeri N. Murari – Memories and Madras
(15) C. D. Gopinath – Memories and Madras – YouTube
S. Sowmya – Memories and Madras
Letika Saran – Memories and Madras
M. V. Subbiah – Memories and Madras
Anita Ratnam – Memories and Madras
Dr B Krishna Rau – Memories and Madras
MCTP Chidambaram – Memories and Madras
Rakesh Ragunathan – Memories and Madras
Krishnamachari Srikkanth – Memories and Madras
Anil Srinivasan – Memories and Madras
Meyyammai Murugappan – Memories and Madras
Sivasankari – Memories and Madras
Mohan Raman – Memories and Madras
Lakshmi Krishnamurthy – Memories and Madras
Thota Tharani – Memories and Madras
Chithra Madhavan – Memories and Madras