Vinita Sidhartha

Ripples Of Life and Time


The Day of the Conference

It was the day of the conference. A phone call from Madras woke me up at4:30 in the morning. It was unimportant, but I could not go back to sleep There was a sense of excitement, fear, and anticipation. I pottered around the room. doing nothing. until I finally dressed up to go. I’d initially chosen to wear a sari with a game of Dahdi or Nine Men’s Morris embellished on the pallu. It was the theme of my speech, and I thought the sari would be a wonderful way to emphasize the theme.

Unfortunately, I had a wardrobe malfunction. Luckily, he had brought a second sari with the dice game of Chaupad or Pachis designed by Lakshmi Srinath. I had a set of earrings that represented the gotis or game pieces and a necklace made from a single long dice.

Aranda is a small town and in the old city, everyone knew we’d come for the conference. Everyone stopped to look at the sari, recognized the game as Pachis. and even wanted to take photos. There was a lot of curiosity over the sari and the jewelry, and a lot of appreciation for the way it had been integrated into the theme of the conference.

It may seem frivolous to some to do this, but to me, it has been a clearly thought-out strategy. Games cannot merely be a conversation when we play. They have to permeate our everyday lives. They need to become part of our life again, like they were hundreds of years ago. By wearing clothes and jewelry and accessories with games on it, I help begin conversations, even among those who are not actually playing, are not actually interested perhaps in the game. However, as these conversations begin, I believe that over time, they will lead to greater awareness about the existence of games and slowly the popularity of these old games will rebuild.

I entered the conference hall and quickly ensured that my presentation was uploaded and working since it had been done overnight. My biggest fear, of course, was that my Spanish translation would be a wrong, erroneous, or even offensive in some manner. I solicited the friend to help of a friend to sit at the front row and signal me if there was something seriously wrong with the Spanish.

One of the challenges I faced at the conference was that many who presented detailed papers were in Spanish and translations were not done for them, because the English-speaking delegates were very few. It meant that we were completely reliant on the photographs and visuals to understand what was happening. Thankfully, not all the papers were detailed presentations. Unlike many other conferences I had been to, attire was casual, and some of the presentations were actually demonstrations on stage.

I went up for my presentation with a little frisson of fear. But when Carlos introduced me and even made mention of the sari I had worn for the conference, I twirled around on stage and got a cheer from the audience. As I started speaking and sharing, I was able to see the engagement of the audience and my fears vanished. I was on home ground. I knew how to do this. I was happy, relaxed, and most important, my presentation was received very well. I got a huge cheer after the paper and many people came up to congratulate me. saying “muy bueno” which was very good in Spanish.

Now that the presentation was done, I could relax and enjoy the rest of the trip.

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Why Ripples of Life?

There is something magical about being on the water.
You are floating, subject to the vagaries of the current.
Somehow there is a sense of being alone with yourself.
And as you look at the ripples, the sun scatters its rays…
And the water infused with light, the droplets shining like diamonds.
In the shade are the shadows— beautiful in their own way.
To me this is very like life itself
With bright highlights — with highs and lows —
Truly the Ripples of Life.


Books by Vinita Sidhartha

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Newspaper Articles by Vinita Sidhartha

The New Indian Express – Just Play column
The lost game of cowrie shells from Kashmir
Poetics of playfulness
The lost game of cowrie shells from Kashmir
Back to the basics
Turning back time to learn about royal games
The treasure in our trees
Shells and the various games we played
The New Indian Express – Memories and Madras
Games inscribed in the past
Street side stories
Through the lens of childhood memories
Through the eyes of a child

In Conversation on YouTube – Memories and Madras

YouTube Links
Indira Parthasarathy – Memories and Madras
Ramesh Krishnan and Ramanathan Krishnan – Memories and Madras
Sriram Venkatakrishnan – Memories and Madras
Prabha Sridevan and Sita Sundar Ram – Memories and Madras
Sikkil Gurucharan – Memories and Madras
Padma Srinath – Memories and Madras
R U Srinivas – Memories and Madras
Sabita Radhakrishna – Memories and Madras
Pradeep Chakravarthy – Memories and Madras
Ranga Kumar – Memories and Madras
Priya Murle – Memories and Madras
Viswanathan Anand – Memories and Madras
Shylaja Chetlur – Memories and Madras
Amar Ramesh – Memories and Madras
Vidya Gajapathi Raju Singh – Memories and Madras
Timeri N. Murari – Memories and Madras
(15) C. D. Gopinath – Memories and Madras – YouTube
S. Sowmya – Memories and Madras
Letika Saran – Memories and Madras
M. V. Subbiah – Memories and Madras
Anita Ratnam – Memories and Madras
Dr B Krishna Rau – Memories and Madras
MCTP Chidambaram – Memories and Madras
Rakesh Ragunathan – Memories and Madras
Krishnamachari Srikkanth – Memories and Madras
Anil Srinivasan – Memories and Madras
Meyyammai Murugappan – Memories and Madras
Sivasankari – Memories and Madras
Mohan Raman – Memories and Madras
Lakshmi Krishnamurthy – Memories and Madras
Thota Tharani – Memories and Madras
Chithra Madhavan – Memories and Madras