Vinita Sidhartha

Ripples Of Life and Time


A Game Exchange

The second day of the conference was a fascinating experience. We were in a large park in Aranda, around a central area resembling a large basketball court, where all of us had set up our games to demonstrate and play. It was a heady experience, having people from different countries come and try out our games, teaching them, and seeing Kreeda being played in a park in Spain. 

It was hard to convey everything at times, but some English speakers and willing translators were curious and eager to learn. What surprised me was that two people actually wanted to buy my book. I had brought a few copies, thinking I would give them away, but they refused to take them for free and actually paid for them. It left me feeling enthralled that my book would be read in places across the world, from Portugal to Spain and beyond. 

It was great fun playing my games with other people. Families with people of all ages participated; in fact, adults enjoyed it almost as much as the children. Very often, when it comes to games, adults tend to leave the children to play while they congregate and sit down. Here, though, it was different. People of all ages were out playing, trying their hand at unusual games. 

One game being played near mine involved a series of discs or flattened bottle caps. The trick was to get them into a square or a circle, with the one coming closest to a chosen point being the winner. Similar to the game of marbles in some ways, this game reminded me of a lovely folk game played with dried mango seeds after mango season. All it required was a basket of dried mango seeds and an open space. I tried my hand at this game and was amused to find that the discs were heavier, whereas mango seeds, being light, sometimes became harder to handle and aim.  

Other similar games were played, such as stilt walking. When I demonstrated how to walk on coconut shells, a team from Portugal came over with two large sticks for stilt walking. They urged me to try. Though I was nervous about breaking bones, I was assured they would help me. 

In India, stilt walking is part of many folk sports and activities, but the stilts are rather tall, making it difficult for children to experiment. Here, the stilts were shorter and easier to maneuver, though they still required a lot of skill. 

Another game was Batu also from Portugal. It was similar to Gilli Danda except the shorter stick is dropped by one player while the other hits it while it is in the air. I enjoyed the game and was so successful at hitting it that they gifted me a Batu set.

At the end of the day was this feeling of joy echoing my long-felt belief that cultures could be different, but we could be united by our games.

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Why Ripples of Life?

There is something magical about being on the water.
You are floating, subject to the vagaries of the current.
Somehow there is a sense of being alone with yourself.
And as you look at the ripples, the sun scatters its rays…
And the water infused with light, the droplets shining like diamonds.
In the shade are the shadows— beautiful in their own way.
To me this is very like life itself
With bright highlights — with highs and lows —
Truly the Ripples of Life.


Books by Vinita Sidhartha

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Newspaper Articles by Vinita Sidhartha

The New Indian Express – Just Play column
The lost game of cowrie shells from Kashmir
Poetics of playfulness
The lost game of cowrie shells from Kashmir
Back to the basics
Turning back time to learn about royal games
The treasure in our trees
Shells and the various games we played
The New Indian Express – Memories and Madras
Games inscribed in the past
Street side stories
Through the lens of childhood memories
Through the eyes of a child

In Conversation on YouTube – Memories and Madras

YouTube Links
Indira Parthasarathy – Memories and Madras
Ramesh Krishnan and Ramanathan Krishnan – Memories and Madras
Sriram Venkatakrishnan – Memories and Madras
Prabha Sridevan and Sita Sundar Ram – Memories and Madras
Sikkil Gurucharan – Memories and Madras
Padma Srinath – Memories and Madras
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Pradeep Chakravarthy – Memories and Madras
Ranga Kumar – Memories and Madras
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